My boyfriend learned to ballroom dance starting in 2008. He pressures me into learning to keep our relationship, then he says it does not matter. He speaks out of both sides of his mouth, on one hand, I should not spend the money on lessons as he will teach me, but he doesn't teach me and gets upset that I am not learning. He is really good and expects me to like this and learn more and more ............. how do I like this? It seems hard, uncomfortable and I am under so much pressure to learn from him I sort of resent it ...... why is this such a big deal? I think it is good but much more difficult to do correctly then I ever imagined and some of the moves are just over the top ..... I think the pressure has killed any confidence ....... any advice?